Healing From Harm

Tag: healing trauma

  • Mourning Romantic Love

    Mourning Romantic Love

    The wound of past wishes for romantic love not being fulfilled is churning in my gut as anxiety and grief. I am in mourning for what I wanted but never received. Processing grief.

  • Inheriting Contempt

    Inheriting Contempt

    My parents left me with a wonderful gift: contempt. I recently realized that this is my default setting in life.It takes me a second to turn off my ego and respond from my core self.

  • With CPTSD, the familiar can be wrong

    With CPTSD, the familiar can be wrong

    With CPTSD, the familiar can be wrong, and the scary experiences can be right. How do we distinguish the difference?

  • OCD and Trauma

    OCD and Trauma

    OCD and Trauma – What was once thought of as a neuropathology of the brain, OCD is now being recognized as a symptom of trauma. I believe it is one of the deepest.

  • The fragments of shifting from an old self to a new self

    The fragments of shifting from an old self to a new self

    The good phase of healing – from caterpillar to butterfly – the fragments of shifting from and old self to a new self

  • What is a Matriarchal Mother?

    What is a Matriarchal Mother?

    Happy Mother’s Day! I am celebrating the matriarchal mother in a world where patriarchy distorts motherhood. If you are interested in watching a YouTube video of my matriarchal sermon, please visit the link below.

  • The Spectrum of Dissociation

    The Spectrum of Dissociation

    From daydreaming to dissociative identity disorder, the spectrum of dissociation can be creative to destructive. And what is Structural Dissociation?

  • The Jesus Archetype and Divine Femininity

    The Jesus Archetype and Divine Femininity

    How does the celebration of Jesus fit into healing trauma and divine femininity? I call his archetype the revered scapegoat – Half worshipped, half demonized.

  • Healing the extremes of trauma responses – the pendulation effect

    Healing the extremes of trauma responses – the pendulation effect

    Healing the extremes of trauma responses – the pendulation effect. Reflecting on the ping-pong effect of trauma responses

  • The Purpose of Catastrophizing

    The Purpose of Catastrophizing

    Those with anxiety know this. Any given experience will undo us; if only we could control it, we would be ok. What if there is a purpose to catastrophizing?